You know those people that really get on your nerves? The ones that make you just want to walk the other way? What is it about their personality that is just so dang annoying you don’t want to have anything to do with them? Surely, there’s got to be something inside that we can work with, right?
Oh nothing a hammer to the head can’t solve.
When we express what we really feel about those that we dislike the most, we begin to do a few things. We start to understand our own emotions and reactions to such people. Also, we get a better understanding of how to work with other people and their own personalities. It’s a mixture of uniqueness out there and there is never enough time to learn it all!
I created a survey and polled several hundred people about personalities and how this interesting topic affects their lives. What follows is their raw, personal, and highly enlightening experiences, opinions, and feelings. I did clean up the language a bit where it was needed, but the survey results here are about as blunt as can be. I’m hoping they’ll help you see just how important personality is in your life.
Survey Question:
How would you describe the personality of the person you dislike the most?
Survey Answers:
- The person I dislike the most lies and is so fake. They will say one thing to your face and then talk about you behind your back. They act like they are the nicest person, and like they care about you, but it all has an ulterior motive.Many people are fooled by this person, which of course, means that no one understands why I dislike them. This person acts like a martyr and everything she does for another person is only done so that she can hold her favors over your head later and it’s so not worth it.
- They are as stubborn as a mule. They don’t listen to anyone. They are always upset or mad at the world. They really need help but refuse to get it.
- The person I dislike most is closed minded and ignorant. Even though she is misinformed on just about every topic she can’t help but be a know-it-all. I would describe her as needy, selfish, intolerant, not bright, and annoying.
- They are arrogant and self-righteous. They believe they are better than everyone else and look down upon others. This personality is extremely annoying because it disrupts teamwork and causes bad situations.
- The person I dislike the most is a bitter, selfish, controlling person. I married her and it has been the worst mistake of my life. She provides no support for our son, yet expects to be a part of his life. She constantly lets me and other people down. She is simply unreliable and doesn’t seem to understand how it hurts other people.
- This person seems very intolerant of anything she does not approve of. She has no sense of accepting anyone else’s right to other opinions even though she may not agree with it. She comes across as really only interested in buying nice clothes, how she looks, and what other people think of her. She doesn’t seem to actually have any depth as a human being, so I avoid her.
- I really dislike people who are shallow, and completely unconcerned by their own shallowness. I mean people who have no awareness of their own privilege — who don’t understand the offensiveness of complaining about having too much homework assigned at college, or not meeting hot enough chicks at a bar. People who are just trying to get ahead, who never stop to reflect on what it’s all for.
- He is lazy and he’s only looking out for his best interest. He makes other people suffer so that he can prosper with the least amount of physical labor or stress on him. He delegates his tasks to make sure he only gets the easiest work and he puts the blame of his problems on other people.
- The personality of the person I dislike the most includes their need to always one-up everyone. They have been there and done everything and know it all. They also tend to have a sense of entitlement about them. They deserve everything under the sun without earning it. Another trait is their judgmental of everything everyone around them does.
- This person is very manipulative and sneaky. She does not care what others think of her. This person has done things to me and other people to try and hurt or mess with their lives. This person will lie and cheat to get what they want.
- They are selfish, disgraceful, and shameful. They only think of other people when they need to use someone. They show no remorse for their actions nor do they try to reconcile with those they have wronged. They’re so selfish that they changed their personality and assumed that means they should be given another chance.Or that it means they can pretend they were always the person they should have been. They reject what they were as if the only way to change is to ignore what they’ve been and done. And they expect forgiveness, as if them being forgiven is just inevitable.
- I’ll be frank, the first word that comes to mind is obnoxious. There is nothing I can tolerate less than someone who makes absolutely no conscious effort to control how they act and behave with others. They’re constantly loud, rude, and completely oblivious to it all. I wouldn’t be caught dead with this person because half the time I know they will find someone to treat like dirt and act so self-righteous about it at the same time.
- The person’s personality that I dislike the most is that of my mother’s, since it is very similar to my own. I am a very stubborn person, so she is as well and that doesn’t bode well for our relationship. Due to both of our stubbornness being on opposing topics we do not see eye to eye on nearly anything.
- Anyone who is a huge ***hole I personally dislike. I can’t give them constructive answers or help guide them. Also I mean that they have anger problems as well. Can’t take a joke, personally I like giving jokes as well as receiving and can’t stand someone who can’t take what they put out.
- I once worked with a girl that always had to be right. She lied most of the time and was just a untrustworthy person. I don’t like people who have to impose their opinions on you when you don’t ask, nor want it.
- The personality if the person I dislike the most may be close to my own, if truth be told. She is a loud mouth, very pompous and always seeking attention. She rarely let’s others finish a sentence and always turns the conversation to herself. Everything she has or does is better than anyone else. I know she must feel insecure, but I try to avoid her.
- I have a former boss who’s personality I struggled with greatly. She was very unforgiving and expected perfection in everything. Although she often made mistakes herself, she held her team to an unrealistic standard of perfection. This created a very stressful work environment.
- He is arrogant and hateful. He never encourages positive discussion. He likes to insult people far too often.
- The person I dislike the most is incredibly self-absorbed to the point that they are oblivious to other people around them. They are also very lazy and act like a child. All of these things combine to make me really dislike them a lot.
- I dislike people who are dishonest and untrustworthy. People who use others to get what they want are horrible. Also, people who tend to be cocky and ostentatious get on my nerves.
- The woman I dislike the most is incredibly full of herself. She feels that her morals are far superior to those around her and she lets those around her know that often. She does good things for people, but she does them publicly and with a lot of show. It kind of makes me ill. This is a narcissistic person with insecurities.
- It’s my ex and she’s really two faced. She pretends to be super nice to you and like she wants to be your best friend, but only when it’s convenient to her. When it’s not, then she just ignores you and is really rude and talks about you behind your back to everyone. But when she wants to be your friend then she is like nothing happened.
- This is kind of difficult but, I will say that it is the ways, not the person. I don’t particularly care for mean people. I don’t like the fact that she will throw up my shortcomings up in a heartbeat. I really don’t like them doing nice things for me, like wearing your niceness like a coat and underneath, you are not matching all of your niceness.
- Quite simple, the person (or type of person) I hate most generally is a liar. If you lie, I can’t trust you, if I can’t trust you I can’t be your friend. Other types of people I can’t like, ones that exaggerate (another form of lying). Basically if you are dishonest in anyway, I want nothing to do with you.
- The person I dislike the most is extroverted, he loves meeting new people and talking to them. He is friendly and outgoing. He is also disorganized, messy, lazy, and he does not know the first thing about discipline. He is always late. His house is always a mess.
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How do you think you can apply these personal insights into the personalities and opinions of other folks out there just like you? Please share your thoughts below.
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