Describe the Personality of the Person You Love Most…

Getting a better understanding of the person we love the most can be the single best action we can take in life. When you are so committed and attached to someone, every bit of understanding and emotional focus you can muster gets you both one step closer to a successful relationship.

Love and railroad tracks – what a combo.

I’m talking about everyone here! Friends, family, spouses, and your kids. Each of these types of people needs a different type of relationship and a different type of emotional involvement from you. How could your unique personality make a real difference in their lives and theirs in yours?

I created a survey and polled several hundred people about personalities and how this interesting topic affects their lives. What follows is their raw, personal, and highly enlightening experiences, opinions, and feelings. I did clean up the language a bit where it was needed, but the survey results here are about as blunt as can be. I’m hoping they’ll help you see just how important personality is in your life.

Survey Question:

How would you describe the personality of the person you love the most?

Survey Answers:

1. The person I love the most is somewhat reserved, but he is generous and kind. He is happy to be out of the limelight, and I thrive in that, so we complement one another. He is also thoughtful, so it makes me proud to know him as he deals with others.He has never had someone dislike him or think he’s a bad person. He has a fairly even temperment. He is curious about everything, loves to grapple with puzzles, need facts to understand things, and isn’t easily duped.
2. They are caring and understanding. They don’t give up and are willing to go great lengths to please and help you. They are strong and display great character.
3. The person I love the most is a generous, caring person. She does a lot of work with a wildlife rescue and rehabilitation organization and loves all animals. “Critters” make her smile.
4. I would be describing my wife and I would say she is an amazingly patient person. She almost always has the ability to take what life throws at her and make the best of the situation. She is extremely religious and I think she uses that as an anchor when things don’t go well.She showed amazing patience when my mother died earlier in the year. She really came through for me when my mom was very ill and then passed away. My wife is an amazing person with a lot of positive traits, but her patience is probably the best of all.
5. She is my world. I have never met a more caring person in my life. She has made me the caring person I have become. She would do anything for anyone. I love her so much.
6. When I first met the person I love the most, I would’ve said he is loud and conceited. Now, I would say he is such a hard worker and wants the best for his family. He works long hours and never complains. He puts himself second. He’ll help and be there for me when I need him.
7. My husband is a loving and caring man. He’s a great father, who would do anything for his family. He is a good provider and works hard to ensure all our needs are met. He’s devoted, faithful, and very loyal.
8. My significant other is very much the opposite me. He is quiet and can listen to bull**** and not let on that he believes they are full of it. He also has the most polite way of talking to others in a way that is disarming and makes others relax and show their true self.
9. She is extremely hard working and goal oriented. She doesn’t quit when things get hard, and just pushes through. This trait is extremely admirable and I love her for it.
10. She has a strong belief in her faith. She doesn’t let things bother her. She has an accent which sometimes develops rapport with customers when they ask, “Where is your accent from?” She had a career decades ago and is satisfied with having a retail job.
11. She is covered in spikes and underneath is the most loving and caring person I have ever met. While to others she might seem abrasiveness or easily angered, to me she always lets me know how much I mean to her and that I am her one and only. There is nothing that makes me more comfortable and happy than knowing I can always go to here in my times of need and doubt.
12. The person I love the most is a very kind and gentle person. He’s smart and funny, and very forgiving of mistakes. He’s also very affectionate and sweet.
13. The person I love the most is very caring and compassionate. They have genuine concern for the well-being of those around them and of all other living things. They have a strong sense of right and wrong and always try to live up to high moral standards.They never want to see anyone in pain and seeing others in pain causes them pain as well. This shows me how capable of empathy they are and I think this is a wonderful personality trait. They are loving and kind and always trying to help others. They try to do good and when they seem something that is wrong, they try to make it right.
14. He’s erratic and creative. Super intelligent and has a multitude of talents that are respectable and almost enviable. He’s got a great sense of humor when it comes to the situations that he’s put in with life and his looks fit his personality, in the sense that he’s quirky looking on the outside and quirking acting on the inside. He’s very unique, even if he doesn’t always see that quality in himself.
15. I love people who are honest, caring and humble. People who think about others before thinking about themselves is a trait I adore. Also, I like it when people do not brag or act cocky with their achievements.
16. My girlfriend can be really sweet. She’s way too nice and trusting of people sometimes so a lot of people can really mess with her and stuff but she’s getting better about not just letting people treat her however she wants. She’s had some hard times lately with an accident and stuff but she’s really strong and she’s getting better. She’s so funny and makes me laugh all the time.
17. He displays unconditional love to people. He is not judgmental. He is big on helping people out.
18. One of the people I love the most is my teenage son. His personality is very easy going, and very funny. Besides that he is smart and kind of quiet but when he makes jokes they are witty and hilarious!
19. The person I love the most is fun, full of surprises, and yet soft and sensitive at moments. Hanging out with this person makes me happy. We have such a great time. I never know what to expect, but I don’t mind it because it adds to the fun. When I need someone to talk to I able to talk to this person and feel better afterward.
20. My experiences vary because I have loved many different women in my life and since their needs are different your response and also the way we relate to them are also different!Now my new girlfriend has a strange personality, Some days she is sweet and loving but she’s had -tragedy- in her life and it has affected her, I mean one husband died from cancer and her youngest son got shot in Iraq so she is not a happy camper.I’ve found in relationships if you look only at a person’s bad side you will never get anywhere, myself I look at the positive only unless that person is dangerous or criminally inclined etc, etc!So on her good days I take her to lunch with me and rejoice in her presence, But she handles both -loss and disappointment- very badly period. And on her bad days I just try to ignore her and tend to my own work as I always have a lot to do anyway so it isn’t hard. In short on her good days she is nice and loving and on her bad days rotten mean and b***** and i desperately try and avoid her O.K. Now European women want a strong man to love them, But American women want a weak and crying -little man- to love them so they can maintain control but that is hard for me to do as it’s not my normal personality. Granted I gave you a better study than you asked but every word is true.
21. They’re a nice person. They’ve been through a lot of good times and bad but they still keep going on and pushing others to do the same. They know when you need to be taken care of and when you need to be let go to get stronger. They’re just a good and kindly person that tries to make everyone around them happier.They don’t give up even when they are sad. Sometimes they even cry but they always try to hide it from others. They’re not the smarted person so they don’t always know what to do and sometimes they say the wrong thing, but they do care and they always want to say the right thing.
22. The guy I love is incredibly confident and caring. He has complete faith in the ability of himself and others to get through whatever problems might arise – and that faith is justified. He knows what he wants and how he is going to get it, and he wants to help others accomplish the same. It’s like a rock to have someone you can totally rely on.
23. The personality of the person I love the most is warm, kind, and friendly. She is not too talkative but she is able to talk and be friendly with strangers. These are the personality I personally would like to obtain.
24. He is intelligent, passionate about technology and cooking, and an excellent conversationalist. He can be stubborn at times, but also very caring and protective of the people he loves. He’s also very much a cat person and would love nothing more than to spend the day cuddling and playing with our three cats. He would very much like to be a father one day (finances permitting).
25. He is adventurous, willing to take risks, and constantly teaches me new things about life. Proves to be loving and caring at the same time, understanding things that most people do not. I’m never bored for a second and feel more comfortable than with anyone else.

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How do you think you can apply these personal insights into the personalities and opinions of other folks out there just like you? Please share your thoughts below.

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