Confidence is a huge factor in getting things done. This is especially true when it comes to making your life better. Much like riding a bike, you won’t be confident in your ability to change until you give it a shot. And sometimes that means shooting a whole lot.
Something you’ll keep seeing in self-help books, and not surprisingly the Bible, is the idea that you must fall down to get back up again. You’ve got to be shown that you aren’t able to do everything perfectly the first time through. A trial by fire is needed to ignite your life.
By working on your strengths, you will build your confidence. By learning how to grow your leadership abilities, you will make yourself a better parent, spouse, worker, and giver. By learning about better communication skills, you’ll be able to express yourself without fear. By living life with more knowledge and practice you will demolish the fear of the unknown.
What is confidence? Thinking you can do something, whether or not you have proof. Be the supplier of your own inner fuel. Work up your internal motivation and forge it into the confidence to get things done. Work on your strengths here and let that fear walk away. You don’t need it anymore.
We All Need Helping in Getting Things Done
It wouldn’t be fair for me to stop there. In everything I do, I won’t just show you the information that’ll help and then run off. I won’t leave the hefty stack of papers on your desk and expect it done by tomorrow. What kind of friend would I be then? This is self-help to live by, not slave by.
I want to tell you what it takes to get there, and I want to show you how to do it. Through the exercises here, and the extra goodies to come, you’ll see where to go. I am committed to helping add more tools to your toolbox.
And it’s not something that ends with the last post of the year. I hope you’ll plan to refer back to this site for the rest of your life – there are some tools here that are timeless. I’ll keep offering plenty of free advice, tips, tools, videos, and help on this website as long as you keep coming back.
You are always welcome and I will always read and consider feedback you send me. I treat the website as a living document. I help you to be better and you help me make it better. And there’s no secret here, I learn so much from you, too. I love books, but they can feel so lonely sometimes. It’s as if it’s a two-way conversation that never changes. But, this website, my Twitter account, and YouTube channel are alive.
I’d love to continue to help in whatever way I can, but only if you’ll promise to help me grow, too.
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