Have you ever noticed that just when you think you are looking and feeling pretty great, some other girl comes along and either steals your boyfriend, or wears cuter clothes than you.
…and has the best personality in the entire world and there’s no way you could ever hate her?!
Sometimes you wonder how other girls keep their cool when you and I would just do the “girl thing” and cry or yell a little and storm out, you know the basic drama gig.
Why do we do this?
We should get to the bottom of it and help ourselves I say!
Look To See What’s Inside
Of course you want to keep up with “Suzie Q” and stay on top of the current fashions, but what makes you a special person?
Deep down inside you are a hungry person like everyone else, and what you feed your mind and heart is who you will become.
It goes beyond positive thinking, but that is part of it.
One thing that helps you to get started on being the person you would like to be, is to take self-help personality quizzes for girls. Once you answer all of the little questions, you can get great advice designed especially for your personality type.
It takes a little bit of focus and practice to see the results, but you will see them.
Someone told me, that it takes twenty-one days to form a new habit. And I am pretty sure they got that from Dr. Maxwell Maltz’s book, Psycho-Cybernetics. Excellent book, by the way.
So as you get busy on working on the new you, you can literally see a difference in yourself within a month.
Watch Out For The Emo’s
You may wish to change your behavior patterns?
I found that this can be a little more difficult if you get angry. I kind of lose my focus and forget all of the good manners I’ve learned if I let my emotions rule my behavior.
After taking a self-help quiz I learned a lot about myself and it gave me new ideas to try.
One thing I noticed is that when you are open to change you need to make decisions before something happens and you have to use what you’ve learned suddenly.
For example: If I decide that I won’t yell at my younger brother, when he draws on my bedroom door, then I have to decide early how I am going to respond.
Did you notice I said respond, instead of react?
The first time I calmly told my brother that the other erasable markers were in the kitchen drawer and he should concentrate on drawing something beautiful on my bedroom door, he smiled and gave me a hug!
I still haven’t erased the drawing on my door and it’s been four months. It was all in my inner growth, and how I responded to his taunting.
He apparently just wanted my attention.
No Hair Pulling Here Please
Self-help personality quizzes for girls can come in all shapes and sizes, so have fun and really believe in yourself.
Don’t over do it though, you want to be the special unique person that you are, you don’t need to work too frantically on yourself, no need to pull your hair out.
Maybe you just want to try a couple of quizzes to see what type of personality you have and get to know yourself better.
You can benefit a lot about why you learn and respond to things differently than others, just by knowing your personality type.
If you’d like to dive deeper into discovering your personality, I suggest taking one of the personality tests on this site:
- Simple and Fun: Bird Personality Test
- Detailed and Involved: Jungian Types Test