So, there was a Great Toilet Paper Incident of ’98. I was trying to potty-train my youngest boy when he decided the entire roll was a scroll from ancient Egypt. My wife and I looked at each other, and in that moment of shared chaos, we knew parenting wasn’t about perfection – it was about […]
Five Generations Are Now Working Side-by-Side in NZ Workplaces – What That Means for Your Career Growth
There’s a moment that happens in a lot of New Zealand workplaces right now that would have been genuinely unusual even fifteen years ago. Someone in their early twenties is running a morning standup. Sitting around the table – or on the Zoom call, because it’s usually a hybrid situation – is a Gen X […]
How Your God-Given Personality Can Save You from a 9-to-5 Misery
Have you ever watched one of those reality shows where folks get sent on wild goose chases through swamps and up mountains? And the winner is always some cheerful fella who’s laughing while he’s slogging through mud, or some fiery competitor who’s roaring at everyone to move faster? Well, honey, let me tell you, that […]
Build Your Business by Building Your People
Back in the day, I had a fella come into my hardware store all flustered. Said his house was about to fall down ’cause he couldn’t find a single person who knew how to fix a leaky faucet without charging him an arm and a leg. He tried the Yellow Pages, he tried asking his […]
Hidden Job Market in New Zealand? How Your Personality Type Determines Your Networking Style
If you’ve been applying for jobs in New Zealand and wondering why it feels like shouting into a very polite void, here’s a statistic that might reframe your entire job search strategy: roughly 70% of roles never get advertised at all. Not 7%. Seventy. That number lands differently depending on where you are in your […]
Don’t Let Your Talent Tangle You Up: A Catholic’s Guide to Humble Self-Expression
Ever see a man at a fish fry try to tell everyone every single detail about the catfish he caught? He’s not just sharing; he’s performing. His gift of a good day on the water has gotten tangled up in his ego, and pretty soon, you’d rather eat the coleslaw than listen to another story. […]
Work-Life Balance vs. Higher Pay: What Your DOPE Personality Type Actually Wants
Here’s a question that sounds simple until you actually sit with it: if you could have more money or more life, which one would you pick? Most of us have an instinctive answer. And then, about three seconds later, we start negotiating with ourselves. Well, it depends on how much more money. And what do […]
Tame the Chaos: Lead Any Workplace Change Like a Pro
You heard me talk about my buddy Earl, right? He ran the town’s only hardware store before I did – and he ran it like it was carved in stone. One Monday morning, we all showed up to find every single shelf empty. Earl had decided, on his own, that we’d switch from our reliable […]
The Non-Linear Career Path Is Now Normal in Australia – How to Own Yours Based on Your Personality
There’s a story a lot of us grew up with about how a career is supposed to go. You study something. You get a graduate role in that thing. You work your way up through the ranks of that thing, accumulating experience and seniority like points in a video game, until eventually you are a […]