Drummer of a Different Drum – You Are Different and Deserve a Chance

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Different Drums and Different Drummers

(from “Please Understand Me” by David Keirsey and Marilyn Bates)

If I do not want what you want, please try not to tell me that my want is wrong.  Or if I believe other than you, at least pause before you correct my view.  Or if my emotion is less than yours, or more, given the same circumstances, try not to ask me to feel more strongly or weakly.  Or yet if I act, or fail to act, in the manner of your design for action, let me be.  I do not, for the moment at least, ask you to understand me.  That will come only when you are willing to give up changing me into a copy of you.

I may be your spouse, your parent, your offspring, your friend, or your colleague.  If you will allow me any of my own wants, or emotions, or beliefs, or actions, then you open yourself, so that some day these ways of mine might not seem so wrong, and might finally appear to you as right – for me. To put up with me is the first step to understanding me.  Not that you embrace my ways as right for you, but that you are no longer irritated or disappointed with me for my seeming waywardness.  And in understanding me you might come to prize my differences from you, and, far from seeking to change me, preserve and even nurture those differences.

You might say I am a drummer of a different drum… just like you.
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USE INFORMATION:
I created this video and have all distribution rights to the video.  The music in the video is called Atlantean Twilight by Kevin MacLeod @ http://incompetech.com/ and is licensed under Creative Commons – Attribution 3.0.  I have credited the artist in the video information.