The Big Five personality model is different. It’s not trying to sort you. It’s trying to describe you – accurately, honestly, and with enough nuance that you might actually recognize yourself in the results. It’s the most scientifically validated personality framework in psychology, which sounds clinical and boring, but stick with me, because what it […]
Don’t Let Your Talent Tangle You Up: A Catholic’s Guide to Humble Self-Expression
Ever see a man at a fish fry try to tell everyone every single detail about the catfish he caught? He’s not just sharing; he’s performing. His gift of a good day on the water has gotten tangled up in his ego, and pretty soon, you’d rather eat the coleslaw than listen to another story. […]
Tame the Chaos: Lead Any Workplace Change Like a Pro
You heard me talk about my buddy Earl, right? He ran the town’s only hardware store before I did – and he ran it like it was carved in stone. One Monday morning, we all showed up to find every single shelf empty. Earl had decided, on his own, that we’d switch from our reliable […]
What Is Executive Function – And Why Does It Explain So Much About You (and Your Teen)?
You know that feeling when you know what you’re supposed to do, you want to do it, and you still somehow… don’t? Or when your kid is clearly smart – you can see it – but they can’t seem to get out of their own way? Homework doesn’t get started. Emotions run hot over small […]
Why Moving In Together Before Marriage is a Risky Gamble
I’m trying to explain why you shouldn’t eat the whole chocolate cake by yourself – it seems delicious in the moment, but you’ll regret it later. We’re talking about premarital cohabitation, or as most folks call it these days, “moving in together before marriage.” You know the drill: you’ve been dating for a while, things […]
Stop Cringing at Feedback! How to Turn Criticism into Your Superpower
Think about that time you tried to help your cousin fix his leaky faucet and ended up flooding the bathroom. You meant well, but the result was a mess. Now imagine if he’d just said, “Hey, Bojangles, next time, maybe turn off the main water valve first?” instead of yelling about soaked towels. Feedback can […]
What’s Your Career Personality? How Knowing Your DOPE Type Can Fast-Track Your Career in Australia & New Zealand
Here’s something nobody tells you when you’re refreshing SEEK at 11pm wondering why your applications keep disappearing into the void: the single biggest career advantage you can give yourself isn’t a better resume template. It’s knowing who you actually are – and then using that knowledge like a cheat code. That’s what we’re getting into […]
Trade the Cape for a Carrying Cloth: Why Real Leaders Are Servants, Not Superstars
Well now, I was just thinkin’ about our ol’ mayor back in ‘89. He wanted to build a new city hall, and he wasn’t shy about remindin’ everyone who was makin’ it happen. Had his name on the blueprints, for cryin’ out loud! Kept talkin’ about his “legacy.” Ended up bein’ the only one who […]
How to Give Feedback That Doesn’t Make Folks Quit
Tried to tell a grown man his fly is down at a family barbecue? You do it quick, you do it with a wink and a nod, and you pray the Lord’s mercy that he doesn’t notice before you can make your exit. Most of us are scared stiff of giving feedback because we’ve seen […]