You’ve got that little gremlin in your gut, the one whispering all those “what ifs,” haven’t you? I know the look. I’ve seen it on my customers’ faces when they used to walk into my store, trying to decide whether to buy that new leaf blower or just keep sweeping their porch for the rest […]
Make Your Money Work for God and Country
Many a time I’d walk into my old hardware store, back when a man’s word was his bond and a dollar went further than it does now, and see a fella wringing his hands about the stock market. I’d slide him a cup of coffee, lean on the counter, and say, “Son, you’re trying to […]
Less Stuff, More Soul: How Catholic Minimalism Can Set You Free
My wife and I used to have a storage unit. Not one of those little ones – oh no, we had the big one. The kind where you could park a small car if you were brave enough (and desperate enough). We called it “The Black Hole” because once something went in, it never came […]
Free Speech Isn’t a Weapon – It’s the Workshop of Truth
My granddaddy always used to say that if you want to know how strong your roof is, you don’t just walk on it in sunny weather. You’ve got to let some wind and rain blow against it for a spell. See where the weak spots are. And I reckon that’s a mighty fine way to […]
Don’t Let the World Steal Your Joy: Stand Firm!
I was in the middle of a fine-tuning a lawnmower engine at my old hardware store when a young fella, maybe twenty-five years old with a laptop under his arm, came strolling up. He looked like he’d just walked off the set of some Silicon Valley show. He said, “You’re Bojangles, right? My dad told […]
Don’t Let the Nest Stay Empty: Why Waiting on Marriage is Stealing Your Joy
I was standin’ in my old hardware store one Saturday mornin’, talkin’ to a young fella about fixin’ up his truck. He was a good kid, smart as a whip, but he had that look in his eye – the one that says you’re just killin’ time until the “real” life starts. “I’m just savin’ […]
Talking Heaven and Purgatory with Kids: A Parent’s Guide
Every now and then, my granddaughter will come home from Sunday school with a question that can stop a grown man in his tracks. It was during one of our Saturday morning pancake flips that she looked up at me with those big, curious eyes and asked, “Pop-Pop, what’s it like to be dead?” I […]
Don’t Let the Devil Steal Your Day
Ever feel like your day is a runaway train and you’re just clinging to the cowcatcher, praying it doesn’t hit anything important? I remember one Saturday at the hardware store. The phone was ringing off the hook, Mrs. Gable was in tears because her leaky faucet had flooded her new linoleum (a sin against good […]
A Man’s Guide to Confession
Now, I know what you’re thinking. “Bojangles, that’s personal! That’s not for the hardware store aisle chat!” And you’re right, in a way. But just like when your sink is clogged or your fence has a loose board, you can’t just ignore it and hope it fixes itself. You’ve got to roll up your sleeves, […]